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Wedding Invitation Etiquette

Etiquette exists to make guests feel welcome and well informed. Most of the rules come down to giving people enough notice, being clear about who is invited and answering the practical questions before they have to ask.

These guides cover the timings, the delicate conversations and the modern questions, such as whether it is acceptable to send invitations by text, so you can make decisions with confidence.

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Questions couples ask

Around eight to twelve weeks before the wedding, or three to four months ahead for a destination wedding or when many guests travel from abroad.

Not when the invitation itself is well designed and complete. A short personal message with the link feels warmer than a bare link on its own.

No. Married, engaged and long-term couples are usually invited together; beyond that, it is your choice. Name exactly who is invited so there is no confusion.